Masturbation does not cause any weakness

When the boys come of age, i.e. after 16 years, they start getting night falls and erection after watching porn or thinking of sex:

This is the most common complaint doctors hear from mostly young patients. When the boys come of age, i.e. after 16 years, they start getting night falls and erection after watching porn or thinking of sex. Pictures of scantily clad girls also can arouse the boys. That leads to a natural thing i.e. masturbation. The masturbation gives the joy of sex without having any female around. So it becomes a habit many times. 

But the masturbation does not cause any weakness in erection. When the boy gets older and thinks of marriage, he feels guilty about masturbation. Many times the tension of having a sex with wife or sex partner creates nervousness. There is a false notion about having to satisfy a woman during sex. The loss of confidence creates another tension that further cause erectile dysfunction. Vey very rarely there is physical defect that causes erectile dysfunction. 

Erectile dysfunction or poor erection and/or premature ejaculation are thus mostly arising from fear of performance or doubt about ability to satisfy a woman. Every human being gets nervous about any act which involves other people like giving a speech, playing cricket when people are watching. Even Sachin Tendulkar gets butterflies while opening a batting. Amitabh Bachchan gets nervous before facing camera even today. So that is just normal. When you are under pressure, you make more mistakes. 

So what is the solution? Just stay calm. Talk to yourself that everything will be alright. Get friendly with your female partner. Spend time with her. Relax. Go for honeymoon. When you are friends with your partner, then approach sex. Don’t hasten with penetration. Do foreplay. Let erection be happening naturally. Most important, loving your partner from the bottom of your heart will cause erection and later orgasm just easily, naturally and will bring satisfaction on both the partners well. 

सेक्स ये निसर्ग का अद्भूत खेल है. आराम से और आत्म विश्वास के साथ उसका मजा लीजिये. टेन्शन लेंगे तो रुकावट हो सकती है. जल्दबाजी की जरुरत नहीं. अपने साथीदार के प्रति आदर और प्यार रखेंगे तो ये सेक्स का मजा बढ़ता ही जायेगा. औरत को प्यार और सम्मान चाहिए, केवल सेक्स से उसका समाधान नहीं होता.